Finding a Vocation to be Passionate in Love


A Passion to Love in Vocation

I was with a friend recently and he asked, in response to my vague descriptions of future plans, “What are you passionate about?” After thinking upon a chapter in a book I read that evening, I think I have found some way of discovering what you are passionate about. For myself, I have many things I enjoy, but much of the time, I am at a loss as to a definite pursuit of them as a means for a living. I fear I will become bored with them, distracted, uninspired, and therefore lose interest and have no passion about what I am doing, which, if your livelihood depends upon such a thing, is a scary thought. This situation is further compounded for us who live in a free society, where opportunity is a simple phone call, car ride, or conversation away. To pursue your desires has never been easier than before in all history. So, to be passionate about the thing you are pursuing coupled with the ability to realistically achieve those desires one has, is a gift and a burden for us today. Though at times, for many, it comes down to fundamental economics. Sometimes your deep passions must be restrained in order to put food on the table. But for those of us in a position where the choice is still open and possibilities are pouring in, how do I go about really finding a place to find and pour out my passions. The key, after what I read that evening, comes from the 2nd commandment of Christ – “Love your neighbor as yourself

In the book I read, What Jesus Demands of the World by John Piper, he describes how the 2nd commandment is an outpouring of the first. If we love God with all our being, then we will love our neighbor for the same purpose, that is, to so point them to love God also with their whole being. And those ways of pointing them to love God will be through practical displays of love, giving, mercy, and compassion. (What Jesus Demands of the World, by John Piper, pgs. 256-262). And here in lies what I see is the most constructive way to find what you are passionate about: What ways brings you the most pleasure in loving people? We must ask ourselves, “Given the opportunity, what are those ways that I am joyous in loving and serving other people?” Those means will, and necessarily must, vary from person to person, for if God gifted all as teachers, then there would be no need for teachers. The problem currently, I believe, is that the church has found herself in a rut and finds that there are only a few giftings worth sharing. But this not need be so. We do not need to exalt alone those gifts that are dedicated for the building up of the church, i.e., pastoral and teaching roles. Though these roles are crucial to the church, they are not the only means that God has given his church to love the world. There are many other fashions that he has given as well. Some, God has gifted as mothers. The skills learned to care for children, for youths, and for their providers are essential. And in such a venue, one can display the love of Christ mightily. Coming to the aid of a hurting child, compassion for a husband displaced from work or coming home from a rough day at work, encouraging other sisters in their motherhood and to persevere, these are all ways God uses mothers to spread the love of Christ through their passion. Or the laborer, who works framing homes and buildings, loves his bosses and fellow co-workers through hard-work, being a pure and positive voice among many foul and cursing ones, and helping those out who are in need of help.

So when you ponder your future, what it is that you would like to “do”, and are considering, “what am I passionate about”, to find what is most joyous look to those jobs where you find joy in loving people through those things that God has gifted you. Sometimes loving takes on the form of giving money, as a supporter. If God has gifted you as a businessperson, then let that ability overflow into helping those whose positions in life have left them in need of help financially, or needing support through your workings. If God has gifted you to work as a schoolteacher, then teach students with the utmost of love and guidance and care. Find those means that bring you joy in bringing another joy.

Some may ask: “What are you passionate about doing?” Take the next step and ask: “What ways are you passionate about loving others?” Then, after you have learned what those means are, go and do them.

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2 thoughts on “Finding a Vocation to be Passionate in Love

  1. As i have speant the last years of my life partaking in the luxuries ad trials of my job, I have learned nothing to be more true than this; love others and seek to bless them and you will succeed.

    I believe that this is what ingenerates a true leader. If all of us may be so bold and inclined as to heed the commission in this fare blog, we would all see this to be so true. Let me give a few examples of this from my own career journeys. I hold a posiiton in a the surf industry with one of the most highly esteemed businesses in the market place. The money is great, the french benefits are even better…enough free clothes to fill a small village, camping trips with surf legends, private parties….the whole nine yards. I have been able to enjoy these benefis in full. Why? Because I got lucky. Rather more importantly, I think God wanted to show me my own heart through experiencing all these things. He wanted to fine tune my passions.

    There have been a lot of down times in my career as well. For example, dealing with office non-sense, being chained to a cubicle for 14 days straight doing nothing but staring at a computer screen and answering phones. But this is all a side note to my main point. That being about learning what it is that has kept be persistent and joyous throughout my daily work weeks. It has truly been nothing short of the Grace of God in allowing me to understand how to enjoy people more by blessing them,putting them first, wanting to see them succeed. Does blessing them necessarily mean sharing the Gospel with them? It can be that, but by no means do I see that as the only way to bless. There are many that I haven’t even spoken to about Christ, yet I have had the opportunity to bless them. This has taken form in the simplest of ways; saying good morning, helping with a task, encouraging someone during a tough time, etc.

    Let me emphasize this to conclude; none of this is to any avail to myslef. I don’t want people to recognize me as ‘Justin, the great guy.’ Farnkly, I can be a real doosh at times, but by His grace I hope I can reflect His love and that the people around me (especially at the work place) will be somhow pointed in the direction of the cross.

  2. This is Rad!!!! I share this with a lot of people.

    How do I get in contact with Justin? Im a friend of his and need to talk to him. Please let him know. Thanks and keep writing.

    Nicole
    7604989890

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